thisishowifeel

Is it really love

lorenherron2207 — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 22:27:46 +0000

Hello again. I am sitting here think and trying to understand how love works. Love is so complicated and so hard to understand. How are you suppose to act if you love someone. Do you have to hug them and kiss them?? Or are these the standards that we have been told to follow by tv and movies. Do we need to say it? Or should ones action show how they feel??? I think that it is someting that is hard to understand. Do you kiss you boyfriend/girlfriend because you enjoy kissing or is it because this is what we are expected to do. Who is the person who is really in love the one who says it all the time and then never show it with his/her action. Or is it the person who never says it but is alway there when you need them. How can you tell someone really love you? I know people always say that action speak louder then words, but sometimes do you just need to hear it?? Sometimes does you body just need to feel love?? Can we just define it ourselves and what works best for out relationships with out the judgemenal eyes of the world. I guess my point is that love is maybe what you make it. By putting images in our head of what the world thinks loves is we take it into our everyday life. Sometime we should be able to look deeper and make our own definition of what love is. Love is what you make it!!! I hope that eveyone is happy with the love that they have in there life.

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Trying to get the hang of this….

lorenherron2207 — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 20:42:02 +0000

Hi again. I was just browsing around and just trying to understand how this whole process works. I understand the you wrote a blog and I am guessing that it can be about anything that I want, however my understanding kind of ends there. The reason that I started this was to kind of use this as a way to vent and to get the view points of other people. I really like the support and feed back that I got on my last blog. I think that it is important to look at things from all vantage points and that is what my blog is about. Just to see how everyone else is think and if it can help me to be a better person. Other then that I do not know if I am suppose to do anything other then that. If I am I would love it if someone can provide some in site on it. I would hate to miss out on the whole experince of this. Anything worth doing is worth doing well. I want to make this a positive learning expericene. Thank you in advance for all of your help.

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This is my very first time…..

lorenherron2207 — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 22:01:15 +0000

This is my first time. So I guess that make me a virgin at this.. So please bear with me. I started this blog as a way to vent and just get somethings off of my chest. Also just to get some other views on life from people who may have gone through the same things. Just to tell you a little about myself. I am 27 years old with three boys. I am recently divorce and currently raising my three boys alone. Here is my issue for today. I have been dating a guy for about two years and I have know him for over ten years. Although I am not sure what he wants out of the relationship and we are taking it one day at a time, I do not know how he should act or what he should do when if come to the kids. The kids do know who their father is and they talk to him on the phone from time to time but I do not want any one to be in an uncomfortable situation. My current boyfriend helps me out with the kids more than their real father but he does not enforce any rule or try to tell them what to do. On top of it all he has no kids of his own. Maybe I am reading to deep in to this and there is nothing to worry about. I just want everyone to be happy. I never expected to be in this place. Any comment please let me know.