thisishowifeel

This is my first time.  So I guess that make me a virgin at this..  So please bear with me.  I started this blog as a way to vent and just get somethings off of my chest.  Also just to get some other views on life from people who may have gone through the same things.  Just to tell you a little about myself.  I am 27 years old with three boys.  I am recently divorce and currently raising my three boys alone.  Here is my issue for today.  I have been dating a guy for about two years and I have know him for over ten years.  Although I am not sure what he wants out of the relationship and we are taking it one day at a time, I do not know how he should act or what he should do when if come to the kids.  The kids do know who their father is and they talk to him on the phone from time to time but I do not want any one to be in an uncomfortable situation.  My current boyfriend helps me out with the kids more than their real father but he does not enforce any rule or try to tell them what to do.  On top of it all he has no kids of his own.  Maybe I am reading to deep in to this and there is nothing to worry about.  I just want everyone to be happy.  I never expected to be in this place.  Any comment please let me know.